Should a girl wear the slut crown, when she decides to get down, on the first night?

 
In the province of sex, they are many commandments. In civilization split between the middle are separate guidelines per gender. Here I am eager to go into the question:
Should a girl wear the slut crown, when she decides to get down on the first night?
Pressing on from my article beforehand, about dating past a promiscuous phase, and understanding why that needs to happen. Plus, sexual standards songs and society is another article, where I looked into lyrics that supported my view, mainly from female artists who shared with me the same frustrations. In fashion, the female sex is open to freely asserting their views on this topic not only voice but their self-hood, when it comes to their sexual characters. (Along with the point that I distinctly do not encourage any way of life) I am intrigued by this concept Sexuality to me, is ones sexual persona, an attribute of which both get comeuppance to roam.
Before we start…
Today, women take on supposed male dominated such as mechanics, plumbers and security guards. These are standardized as being the jobs males are good at.
Males on the other hand are dancers, hairdressers and househusbands. These are generally seen as womanly, Not only that both are criticized by the opposite sex, When the storm of the criticisms die down, we become conscious of the fact that- skills aren’t gender specific, if the role can be filled by any, then the job can be done.
In terms of a sexual persona, To start with, According to Cambridge dictionaries online , the word slut :a woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any emotional involvement. Right up front, I’d like to clarify the term slut. It’s dropped on a daily and I wonder if there is the different Now, following on from searching for the word that amounts to the gender specific female title, I was curious to check I rummaged around for the male equivalent. I was not in wonderment that there was no plain spoken word for it this could be potential reason as to why a woman would be scrutinized. It’s been dubbed ages ago and continued throughout time. To my amusement, what id would like to emphasize is the fact both sexes participate in the same event, yet the male is seen as godly and the woman a peasant.

“I should make a move, but I won’t
I know your probably thinking’ something is wrong
Knowing if I do that it won’t be right
I want to get down, but not the first night” Monica, First Night

The ninety day rule, by Steve Harvey indicates that women hold the power when it comes to sex. They should lay down a three month rule on making a man wait. This is on the grounds to see if the man truly likes you and have the patience to wait, not only that for the sake of respect. He classes this as a probationary period. By all means, this is agreeable. Watching the film: Think like a man, which is the books adaptation in cinematic form, Zeke the Freak, who symbolizes the player, and opposing him Mia, a girl who usually hops in to bed, and wonders why men don’t stay, both eventually change their ways, by Mia leading, holding out till the ninety day and Zeke having to earn his keep.
In La Anthony’s the love playbook: Rules for Love, Sex and Happiness talks a situation where a friend of hers asked her if sleeping with someone on the first date makes her a whore. Then the she replied “Well does it make you feel like a hoe”? And they girl replied that it never. Anthony does advise that waiting it better, as it does give a little something to look forward to. However, specifically doesn’t say not to.
Harville Hendrix brings up the concept that “Women need to feel love to have sex, and Men need sex to feel love”. It is generally legitimate but much challenged.
In the sitcom sex and the city, Samantha Jones is a woman, whose humor and behavior are both sexually explicit. It was debated once if she was a realistic character for a woman in our society today. I’m aware not all woman may agree with this matter, but we shouldn’t be shut eyed about the naked truth is there are women who have do not have traditional view on sex and not so deep opinions about it. They are just free spirited.
Spiritually, The second chakra: Svadhisthana located in the naval area show the soul’s sexual energy at its center. It’s a sign that a part of you wants to be open, but the rest unbalanced, so in order to weigh up accurately, you need to work on opening the other doors. Like I have mentioned formerly, the soul knows of no gender so technically men and women are liable for this to happen to both.
My overall thesis:
Men stay with a woman whether they sleep with her or not, first day or not. If he likes you, he will be with you regardless. It’s up to you to know your intentions, and it’s your job to understand that men have the ability to detach. If you’re in it to win it, you must know an orgasm may be the award, the relationship however won’t be. It won’t glue him, it may glue you, and dependant on the feelings you begin with. If you don’t judge yourself, criticize yourself. A man who wants to get to know a woman, not amount of extravagant intercourse will make him stay.

“After we have sex
don’t stress yourself I will respect you if you respect yourself girl” Cassidy. Get No Better.

I’ve known of plenty women, three in my case studies who have been in relationships that started off as one night stands. Possibly, they had known their partners beforehand, but started dating as opposed to sleeping together. In theory I must alert you that the sex may have been good, but this was not the fish net to trap the fish. Both genders, must be both must have emotionally, sexually exposed and ready to continue into a relationship
Some say, that if they have known the guy before, by the time they get to the first date, they are already comfortable to share themselves intimately the sexual way. Those, men whom they haven’t known, they should be slightly hesitant and this would questionably call it a one night stand. This would give off the impression the lady preserves this way with all men she meets.
Talking about giving, sometimes it’s a lot less dangerous having sex, especially where emotions are concerned. The notion behind this is, someone having your body, is not as bad as having you emotionally detached or in love. If a female’s emotion are in tack, she could have the ability to have sex like a man .Traditionally women are said to not have the ability to cut strings easily as a man would. Biology tells us this. What it fails to reveal, is it depends on the persona of the female. When one is conscious of how she is feeling and what she desires, I’m sure a female can do the same.
Opportunity is a big thing. You choose to watch a movie back at his; of course you’re prone to the temptation. Firstly, you’d be alone. It’s encouraging because there’s no one to be stopping you. Balls in your court if you are aware that that’s all he wants, you direct the place to go. You also be wise about how you present yourself. You are aware when you go to an interview you prepare from head to your appearance, same way, a date you do the same. In contrast to an interview, your clothes stay on before and after. But you know on a date it could be a different ending. For you to be so confident in your strip tease, you know it’s due to the fact you’re polished to perfection. Feasibly, to avoid so, hold back there a little too.

“A quick hit, that’s your game
but I’m not a piece of meat, stimulate my brain”. Jermaine Stewart, Clothes Off

The divide between the western world and other cultures is because being brought up in the western world I know there is far more freedom to do whatever it is like. There are more who are sexually open, Sure about their needs that have the ability to withholds emotion and knows the score. Needs aren’t gender specific. A little ego seems to go a long way when it comes to stepping up to the role. Being a female where we are known to be the tender of sexes. But we don’t hold to that. Just like Samantha Jones, I know they are women out there who she represents.
Closing thoughts…

It’s not a way of life I promote, but the conversationalist in me just wants to discuss. I just declare that if he can crown himself a God after that first night, you can rock on with your Goddess self too, surely.

 

. http://infinityhousemagazine.com/sexual-standards-songs-and-society/

 

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